Dating is hard for gents!

 It is hard...I won't lie to you. I would ask my mama about how dating back in the day was. A guy would put a Luther Vandross' song, get a bunch of flowers and chocolate, and sweet talk her till she gives in. 

Now, the game has changed. The stakes are high. Girls are always looking for what is better. The average chick would post a photo and guys will flood in her DMs. 

BUT,

For you, the average guy it's hard. Not even one chick will slide in your DMs unless you're of importance. 

See, I have tried dating by being a nice guy. I would make sure that she's always happy. Do what my mama told me to do. Didn't she diss me?...😂😂

I later realized that man this ain't working. I need to have a game. 

I started to change my approach. From being beta to alpha.  It's a cold world out there and I have to be cold. It's the survival of the fittest.

I hit the gym until now. Self-improving till now. Eating healthy and improving my social skills. I can see that perception is changing. We are getting there. 

Sometimes you will feel like giving up dating. 

I still need a car, a stable job, and a house. I believed people telling me that she'll love you for who you are.

LIARS...

It ain't the truth. 

For females to really like you, you gotta have money, status, and power. This is what defines a man.

You gotta grind. You gotta be cold. 

I believe that females are always seeking adventure. They always want to experience that rage of emotions within them. And for that, they need a cold. unemotional man. A guy that's hard to read. They would be pushing his buttons and he won't care. It drives them crazy!

It's complicated, I know. But that is just the way it is.

I didn't understand my grandfather's and father's behavior up until now. Not to say that I condone cheating, but can you blame the energy that comes with money, status, and power?

When you're at the top, everyone wants you. But when you're the average Joe, you're nothing.

Females from a younger age as 13 already now about dating. Way far than gents know. I remember at this age I was still playing with bricks making them cars. The thought of dating never crossed my mind.😂

I remember my first kiss. I was 12 years old. She was 15. Gosh, that felt so good! Who taught her that? Thereafter she asked if we could date. As slow as I was, she lost interest. She was now chasing the big guys.

It is always a maze for guys. Once you think that you figured out the thought patterns of female nature, you get lost again. You have to go back to the starting point and learn your way into understanding them.

Males are deceived from when they were young. It is time that you rewire your thought patterns. Being celibate ain't nice, believe me. We are designed to be with someone. Ain't no man an island.

I am here to help all the homies out there who are going through what I went through. I know it ain't easy, but it is doable. You can date brother!