CONFESSIONS OF A WRITING FREAK

 It is hard...I won't lie to you. I would ask my mama about how dating back in the day was. A guy would put a Luther Vandross' song, get a bunch of flowers and chocolate, and sweet talk her till she gives in.  Now, the game has changed. The stakes are high. Girls are always looking for what is better. The average chick would post a photo and guys will flood in her DMs.  BUT, For you, the average guy it's hard. Not even one chick will slide in your DMs unless you're of importance.  See, I have tried dating by being a nice guy. I would make sure that she's always happy. Do what my mama told me to do. Didn't she diss me?...😂😂 I later realized that man this ain't working. I need to have a game.  I started to change my approach. From being beta to alpha.  It's a cold world out there and I have to be cold. It's the survival of the fittest. I hit the gym until now. Self-improving till now. Eating healthy and improving my social skills. I can see that perc...

 I have promised myself that I won't fall into the trap of a ''situationship" again. Well, I did! How many times am I going to allow myself to be so good to others? I end up being disappointed. As a man you a raised to respect females. To love and cherish them. I learned important values such as loyalty, commitment, and honesty. These values have shaped me into becoming the nobleman that I am. BUT... If the same women I am taught to treat like queens don't respect me, what can you do? It's funny that society has pictured men to be cold. To not give a damn! This will make females love them. Is this the way men are supposed to live their life? I know that I am a gentle and friendly person. I am not cold. I have tried it once, but it felt as if I was trapped in another person's body. Or worse it felt as if a legion of demons were inside me. I was genuine. Time and time I tried to be Mr. Right. I would be a shoulder to cry on and I will still be rejected. How I...